It wasn’t a style epiphany, to be fair. It was just too hot to do anything else. An extended run of hot weather at home changes how you dress. In the old-school type of British heatwave, which lasted about half a week, I was too giddy with excitement at not having to wear a cardigan to think more strategically. But this summer was different. And eventually I discovered what hot-climate cultures have always known, which is that loose, generously sized clothing that maximises sun protection while minimising skin contact is way more pleasant to wear in the heat than anything short and tight.
And it wasn’t just me. I was at haute couture shows in Paris and Rome back in July, and it was crazy hot. The super-wealthy women who get invited because they actually buy the stuff, were wearing shoulder-padded cocktail suits or sequin-embellished dresses, or whatever they had ordered from the latest collection. Fair play: if I had bought £100,000-worth of embroidery I might also feel compelled to wear it, even at risk of heatstroke. But pretty much everyone else was wearing a loose shirt – could be Carven, could be Uniqlo – over some sort of filmy skirt, or hanging over loose trousers. Sometimes unbuttoned over a bra top, sometimes buttoned through, but never tucked in.
This summer has been a learning curve for me. My instinct is always to tuck a shirt in, or at the very least French tuck the front. I would love to say this is just because it feels smarter but, if I’m honest, it is also because my instinctive response to seeing myself in a mirror is to try to make myself look smaller. Yes, this is idiot-level behaviour, I know that. But the impulse – to hold your tummy in, or to belt your jacket to give it a waist – is so ingrained in many women that I’m not sure we recognise it for what it is a lot of the time.

Alexa Chung was way ahead of me here. Obviously. So if you won’t listen to me, take it from Alexa. Speaking on a podcast in February, she told Harper’s Bazaar she had been “trying something on the other day, and tucking it in felt weird. I immediately, instinctively, went for the tuck. And then I thought: ‘Oh no, wait, that feels weird.’”
If you really can’t deal with letting it all hang out, there is a workaround. I saw it on TikTok, so it must be OK, right? I’m calling it the Reverse French. Instead of tucking a shirt or long top into the front of your waistband, you gather some of the fabric at the back – you can use a ponytail band – and hide this inside the back of your waistband. At the front, the fabric hangs out. You still get the looseness, but with less extra fabric.
A record-breaking heatwave has given us a chance to catch up with loosey-goosey fashion, but old habits die hard: I will be keeping a ponytail band in my handbag just in case.
Styling: Melanie Wilkinson. Styling assistant: Charlotte Gornall. Model: Moli at Milk. Hair and makeup: Sophie Higginson using Davines and Reome. , £220, Navygrey. , £35, Stripe & Stare. , £69.99, Mango. Earrings, £65, and necklace, £75, both Anni Lu
